In Buddhism, there's a saying " habits die hard", it is especially true for elderly because the habits have been with them for too long. That's why Shifu always advise us to change our bad habit bit by bit.
You can advise him/her that if she/he's not going to let go now and enjoy life, there's not much time left. I always tell the elderly at home that if I'm at their age, I'll let go,close one eye and enjoy life.
一念放下,万般自在.
Followings are for you. I know it's not easy to tolerate people like that. Sometimes they can really drive you crazy.
嘴巴是别人的，喜欢他怎么讲。
如果是对你不利的话，不要太在意就好。
千万不要活在别人的嘴里。
不要让一句不善的话，毁了你的幸福。
You can advise him/her that if she/he's not going to let go now and enjoy life, there's not much time left. I always tell the elderly at home that if I'm at their age, I'll let go,close one eye and enjoy life.
一念放下,万般自在.
Followings are for you. I know it's not easy to tolerate people like that. Sometimes they can really drive you crazy.
嘴巴是别人的，喜欢他怎么讲。
如果是对你不利的话，不要太在意就好。
千万不要活在别人的嘴里。
不要让一句不善的话，毁了你的幸福。
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